All I want to know is, Why?

Statistics

• A girl is bullied every seven minutes.
• Almost one-third of girls are directly involved in bullying (as the bully or the bullied)
• 15% of girls who are bullied tell someone.
• 43% of girls fear harassment in school bathrooms.
• When girl bullying occurs: 85% of the time no intervention, 11% peer intervention and 4% teacher intervention. 

Types of Bullying

• Gossiping
• Teasing/Public Humiliation
• Relational Blackmail
• Ostracism/Exclusion
• Creating Paranoia
• Pranks and Technology

Why People Bully

• Boredom
• Desire for Excitement
• Jealousy/Insecurities about: Appearance -Relationships -Attention
• Competition for boys
• Revenge
• Just for fun
• Boost their confidence
• “Gain power” in Social groups
• Desire for Social approval 

Effects on the Person Being Bullied

• Anxiety
• Depression
• Feeling of rejection and loneliness
• Low self esteem
• Suicide
• Obesity and other eating disorders
• Substance abuse and addiction
• Romance and relationship problems
• Personality disorders
• Resentment towards women
• Dropping out of school 

Why do girls feel the need to bully one another?  Why does anyone feel the need to bully another person?  Does it really make you feel good to say hurtful things about another person?

No matter how much the person tries to ignore it, it's going to affect them in some way, whether they show it on the outside or keep it on the inside.  It doesn't matter whether you're saying the mean things to the girl's face or on the internet, it's still going to hurt them just as much.  If you're going to put these things out there on the internet think to yourself "Is what this person did to me so bad that I need to bash them publicly for everyone to see?" because whenever I hear about it all I hear is that it makes the "basher" look bad. 

Why is it that boys can get along so well and girls can't?   

Yea, a boy might be mad at another boy one day but it's all blown over the next day.  But when a girl's mad at another girl they can hate each other for years. There's no reason that a girl should say such mean things about another girl that it pushes that girl to the point of suicide, absolutely no reason.  

PLEASE, think about it the next time you want to say something about another girl that could potentially be hurtful, think to yourself "is it worth it?" is it worth making the other girl feel bad?

Having Faith.

So long, so long.  Today was the busiest, most stressful day of my life.  I had my first official National Honor Society meeting as president this morning at 7:30.  It went pretty well, then I had school all day.  After school I went to play practice for our school play, "You're A Good Man Charlie Brown."  I'm Sally Brown (: I had to leave practice early to get ready for our NHS induction ceremony at 7:00 pm.  Since I'm president I had to lead the whole ceremony and I was so nervous.  I am a horrible public speaker.  I passed my college speech class because I write good speeches, not because I can present them.  I about fainted..but I made it through. (:  This week and next week will be the most stressful because our play is next Friday and Saturday.  Soooo nervous, and I hope we can pull it together before then!! :/ I just have to have faith!!  Then the week after the play, I have to perform in a dinner concert for my Show Choir.  The theme is USO..lame xP  but it all works out because Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows comes out November 19th!!! Heaven is almost here (:

Broken Legs, NHS, School Plays, and Obsessions

Okay so I haven't been on my blog in a long while! It's sad, I know.  I started school the other day..well I guess other week, and I've been so so busy.  I enjoyed cross country while it lasted but my darn broken leg had to rear its ugly head again and as of now I can't run.  Last track season, I broke my fibula from running on it and when I started running on it again it hurt really bad, so we went to the doctor and he said it might be rebreaking.  So, tomorrow I'm going to and orthopedic doctor so we can get the dealio on it.  Also, this year I am president of my NHS group (National Honor Society), so tonight I had a forty minute discussion with our new sponsor about new ideas for this year. Along with all this, I am going to start swing choir practice tomorrow after school and on the 20th I have tryouts for our school play.  This year's is going to be "You're A Good Man Charlie Brown," so I'm pretty excited.  I've been in every school play since I've been in high school so cross my fingers for this one!!  Also I'm currently obsessed with: Beauty Gurus on YouTube, organization, Broadway musical songs, makeup & hair products, and longer jean shorts-not as long as bermudas but longer than shorty shorts. (:

Organization, Shopping Lists, and Daniel Radcliffe.

Okay so, I just got done cleaning out my closet.  It's a walk-in closet and it was absolutely full of junk.  I threw like two trash bags full of stuff away (it was mostly little kid stuff that I've never gotten rid of).  I'm so excited that it is clean(er) now!! But there are still more things I need to get to make me have more storage space and to be more organized. Well here, why don't I just put my "shopping list" on here for you to read. (:

-iPod Cover
-Little Plastic Drawers for Make-up
-Big Drawers for Closet
-Under Bed Sto-away Thing
-Drawer for Jewelry
-Clothes Hangers
-Coat Rack

Seem like a lot of stuff? Yea I know..and I'll have to pay for it all.  That's why I'm always babysitting and life guarding and teaching swim lessons.  It's all for the green baby.

Ohhhhhhh!!! and guess what I just got in the mail that I'm really excited about!!! An autographed picture of Daniel Radcliffe.  Yea I know this may seem weird or juvenile but I love him..and Harry Potter..I'm a nerd, get over it. (: But yes, it is my third picture from him..or at least his assistants, and I'm just a tad bit excited.

SIDE NOTE-When I scanned the picture it only scanned the picture part. In reality there's a thick, white border around that picture and that's where he signed it. So don't think I'm lying!!!

Weight Problems?

92% of teen girls would like to change something about the way they look, with body weight ranking the highest.

75% of teenage girls felt 'depressed, guilty and shameful' after spending just three minutes leafing through a fashion magazine.

While only 19% of teenage girls are "overweight," 67% think they "need to lose weight"

90% of eating disorders are found in girls

74% of girls say they are under pressure to please everyone

3 out of 4 girls say they feel pressure to be "super girls"

74% say they often feel stressed

So tell me, with these stats why do we feel this way? And trust me, I'm as guilty as everyone. I call myself fat on a daily basis..but why? Why do we feel this way about ourselves? Why do we call ourselves fat and ugly, even if we aren't? And it's really only in girls. I don't think I've ever heard of a boy not eating because he thinks he's fat, or puking himself every time he thinks he eats too much. So what is it with girls that makes them criticize themselves so much. Is it the images on TV and in magazines? Is it that we think that everyone else is criticizing us so we criticize ourselves? And I've noticed with myself that a lot of the time I call myself fat or ugly just so someone can contradict me, just so someone will tell me "no, you're not, you're perfect and beautiful just the way you are." But not everyone has someone to tell them that, so they just go on with low self-esteem. Let's try something, let's try to love ourselves for who we are and what we look like, no matter what anyone else says. (:

-->The stats above are from this website.

Annie, Shanae, && Cassadee

So, I was looking up a video on youtube and underneath the video there was a link to Hey Monday's "I Don't Wanna Dance" video. So, I clicked on it because I like Hey Monday but I've never seen their videos or like what they look like, and as I was watching I notice that the lead singer, Cassadee Pope, looks like Annie Clark (Fiona from Degrassi) and Shanae Grimes (Darcy from Degrassi, and Annie from 90210) put together. She looks a little more like Annie Clark, but you can kinda tell where I got the Shanae Grimes part from. I'll put pictures down below, Cassadee in the middle, Annie on the left, and Shanae on the right. Tell me if you see the resemblance to and that I'm not seeing things xD

Vlogs, Blogs, and Blood.

I just gave blood like..twenty minutes ago? and I'm feeling pretty dizzy :S but also very good for helping out in that way (: It makes me feel good to do things like that. Also the nurses were very nice and got me a Mt. Dew when I almost fainted and had to lay down. So, thank you nurses! On another note, I've been reading Elle and Blair Fowler's blogs and watching their vlogs and realized that I really want to be like them. I mean to be famous just from one of these things? Amazing. But to be famous you have to be rich, and well..I'm not. I'm far from it. I buy all my makeup and clothes and everything else that I don't absolutely need. That's where life guarding comes in, which I had to do today...and babysitting, which surprisingly is more fun than life guarding, but you don't get as good of a tan ;D So, right now I'm going to go lie down because I'm starting to see spots again, so bye!

Cabinnnn.

Ahh, I've been gone at my cousin's cabin since Wednesday, and there was no cable and very, very limited internet. :/ buttttttt I survived! It was so much fun, my Aunt Darci, Uncle Eric and their two daughters, Ava (three) and Sophia (one and a half) came up too. We tubed a lot, and water skied. But the last night we went out on the boat, my dad was skiing and when he fell he tore his hamstring! It was awful, he couldn't walk the rest of the night. But he's fine now, just really sore (: haha. But I must bid you all farewell and head off to lovely plyometrics. :D

This kid kicks A (:

Receptionn.

So, last night my family and I went to my mom's friend from high school's wedding reception. I thought it was going to be one of those things where my mom introduces me to these people and they're all like "Awww, you've grown up so much! Do you remember me?" and I really don't but I say yes anyways so it doesn't have to get awkward. But it turned out to be a lot of fun! My mom's friend Sophie brought her kids, Brock and Abby, and they rock (: They're like ten and eleven but they are the coolest kids I know. I think we're going on a vacation with them next year!! Scorrrreeeee!! (:

That's Abby :D-->

Alsooooo: does anyone else think that the movie Penelope kicks
some serious A??
I just watched it like an hour ago and I absolutely loved it<33

I Heart Katy Perry.

Benjaminn

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIG BROTHER :D

My almost-always-annoying-but-I-still-love-him older brother is turning NINETEEN today!! And in like four weeks he's moving off to college two and a half hours away :( Sometimes he annoys me to the point of wishing he was gone already, but right now..I'm kinda sad...

Fashionnnn

Newest Obsessions!!!--> Sweaters && Jackets :D

They are the best layering tools in your wardrobe! You can wear a sweater over anything you want, and if it's the right color it will look good. They even look good with shorts, so you don't have to keep sweaters tucked away in the summer.

Same thing with jackets. Bomber jackets are my personal favorite. They look good layered over anything and are the best at completing your style. A black one looks especially cute over a flower print dress.(:

**Pictures courtesy of pages 77&79 of the August issue of Seventeen Magazine.

Opinionssss

Top 10 Hot Actors? (in no particular order):

1.Channing Tatum- Ohhh John, Savannah doesn't deserve you anyways. (:

2. Daniel Radcliffe- I'm so team Gerry/Hinny, but I wouldn't mind him being on my side.

3. Gerard Butler- Everyone loves a sexy Irishman ;D

4. Landon Liboiron- Because Declan is an amazing name...and he has an amazing face, yumm.

5. Will Smith- I will always love you, no matter how old you get.

6. Jackson Rathbone- Forget Edward and Jacob, I'm Team Jasper xD

7. Jude Law- Sexiest accent EVER.

8. Chace Crawford- Amazing eyes (:

9. Heath Ledger- Because I will always love him, even in death. <333

10. Bradley Cooper- He can come put a tiger in my bathroom ;D

Busy Bodies.

Ugghhh...massive headache from life guarding all day and then going to plyometrics.

I.Just.Want.To.Sleep.

And unfortunately I'm going to be working a lot in the next couple of days because we are going to be going on a trip to my cousin's cabin!! Woot woot (: It'll be like four days or so of skiing, tubing, tanning, partying, and all of the above! And I'm hoping with all of my little heart that my bestest cousins in the whole world will come!!! Kenzie, Tali, Tianna, and Brenden-->you better get your butts up there :D But for now I just have to think about waking up at seven tomorrow to go to work from eight-two :( shoot me please.

Abuse?

So, after watching tonight's new episode of Degrassi: TBP, I've come to the conclusion that all men who beat their gf's and/or wives should be castrated (: Poor FiFi. Say bye-bye to your what-nots, Bobby.

I also came across this yummy picture of Declan in the http://www.teennick.com Degrassi character photo archives. (;

Plyometrics

Oh plyometrics, if you don't know what that is, it's pretty much working out with medicine balls, jump ropes, and kettle balls. Tyra (my best friend ) asked me to come to this because her mom was teaching/coaching it for her volleyball team. (btw: Tyra and I run cross country and don't play volleyball.) And it was rather difficult. Especially after having a broken fibula for the last two months. Anywho, it was hard and I sweated profusely, but there's something about working out that makes your day feel fulfilled. (: ..even if I do drink a bottle of slightly unhealthy Mt. Dew afterward. :/

On a brighter note, my cousins;
Ava (three) and Sophia(one and a half)
were here to see me, and Ava successfully
bit my cheek while trying to eat my face.
:D

Television Schedule ((:

Just got back from teaching swim lessons...I'm so sick of them, I've been doing them for like the past eight weeks. Anywho, getting ready to watch GLEE! My new favorite obsession, btw. We've been getting first season from Netflix. I've got a soft spot for the gay guy, he's def my fave. (: Then after that I'm going to watch last night's episode of Pretty Little Liars on http://www.abcfamily.com. There are so many shows I'm following, and I love them all. (:

Oh, Degrassi, Secret Life of the American Teenager, Glee, and Pretty Little Liars,
you are my life<333

Degrassi: TBP

Okay, no judging.. (and btw I'm feeling this purple). But I'm kinda, sorta obsessed with the show Degrassi, and the I missed the movie premier last night and just watched it tonight and was still totally amazed at the cuteness of Declan and Holly J. They have to be the cutest couple ever..and maybe I'm just a little biased because of Declan's ravishing good looks, but I still am totally team Dolly J (:

I also feel the need to talk about the horrible Spinner/Jane break up and Spinner/Emma marriage. From day one, I've hated Emma..I don't know if it's because of the acting job that Miriam McDonald does, or just Emma's character in general. I mean come on..she's had gonorrhea, bulimia, and pretty much all of the above. She just gets under my skin. And when Jane showed up to the wedding and saw how happy Spinner was, and she told him to go through with it because it made him happy..now that's true love people. Go Jane!

Okay one last thing, I promise: Anyone else
think that Fiona is gorgeous, and just
a little messed up in the brain?
Let me know what you think (:

July Twenty (:

Currently listening to: "Teddy Picker"-The Arctic Monkeys.
First post of my first blog..ever! Yes, yes I know you're all very excited. So, let's get the basics out of the way. I'm Alix, seventeen, just starting my senior year! (:
There are things you should know: I'm a straight A student, president of National Honor Society, and alternating between number one and number two in my class. I'm an over achiever and like to lead. I recently applied for that Teen Vogue fashion scholarship, and am absolutely confident in myself. I mean why shouldn't I be. Everyone should be confident in themselves right? So, this blog is going to be about random things that I'm either passionate about at the moment or just anything. Feel free to comment (:

BTW-That^^^^ was my mood board for my application (: